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The Sunday Reset: Finding Our Rhythm Again
It’s been a month since my last post. The day Carmen died, my words stopped. Grief has a way of silencing us, even in the places we love mos
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Oct 52 min read


The Sunday Reset, Vol. 9: Start Smaller Than You Think
This week’s Sunday Reset is tiny on purpose. Try the 5–3–1 Reset: 5-minute sweep, 3 touchpoints, 1 daily anchor.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Sep 62 min read


You’re Not Late, You’re Between | The Sunday Reset, Vol. 8
Editors Note Related: Missed Vol. 2? You’re Not Behind. You’re Tired. → Welcome back. If your brain is saying, I’m late, here’s another...
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Aug 312 min read


You’re Still Doing the Work | The Sunday Reset, Vol. 7
Healing isn’t always linear. Even rest, pauses, and softer choices are still doing the work. Here’s your reminder.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Aug 242 min read


Speak Up: A Free Script to Contact NC Legislators About Medicaid Cuts
Speak up with copy-paste scripts to email, call, and message NC legislators about Medicaid cuts. Includes PDF toolkit and quick links to fin
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Aug 182 min read


Begin Again, Mid-Sentence | The Sunday Reset, Vol. 6
August doesn’t always come with a clean slate. Sometimes you reset mid-scroll, mid-mess, mid-apology—and that still counts. This gentle note invites you to stop waiting for perfect conditions and simply begin again, mid-sentence.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Aug 172 min read


Therapy Isn't Neutral. Neither Am I: What DC Police Federal Control Reveals About Safety and Power
Falling crime rates. Federal control. A state of emergency. And a promise that police can “do whatever the hell they want.” This isn’t just a DC story it’s a warning about how quickly safety can be redefined, and why accountability matters more than ever.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Aug 113 min read


Sunday Reset: July 2025 Roundup — 3 Permission Slips for August
July’s Sunday Reset reflections were permission slips to slow down, choose softness, and stop measuring your worth by productivity. From easing the Sunday Scaries to finding your way back to yourself, each reset was a gentle nudge toward rest and reconnection and a reminder that you can begin again anytime.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Aug 112 min read


You Don’t Have to Earn Rest | The Sunday Reset, Vol. 5
A soft pushback on the toxic idea that rest has to be “earned.” This reset invites readers to reclaim rest as a right, not a reward.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Aug 103 min read


Ritual Over Routine | The Sunday Reset, Vol. 4
This week’s Reset invites you to reimagine Sunday tasks as rituals—if and when you have the capacity. Because sometimes what feels sacred is also heavy. Let’s explore ritual as resistance, rest, and reclamation.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Aug 32 min read


Back to School, Back To You: Reclaiming Your Routine
For many, August signals more than just school supply runs and new schedules—it’s a seasonal shift. Instead of snapping back into productivity mode, what if this month was about returning to yourself?
In this post, you’ll find three simple ways to move into fall with clarity: reassessing your commitments, building routines that fit your life, and making space for what matters most.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Jul 312 min read


When You Feel Disconnected | The Sunday Reset, Vol. 3
If your Sunday feels blank instead of busy, you’re not alone. Disconnection is a nervous system cue—not a failure. This week’s Sunday Reset offers a gentle ritual to help you tether back to yourself with softness and care.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Jul 272 min read


How to Break Up with Your Therapist (Without Making It Weird)
Not every therapist is meant to be your therapist forever—and that’s okay. Whether you’ve outgrown the work, want a different approach, or just need a pause, this guide walks you through how to leave therapy with care (and zero ghosting). Learn how to give feedback, ask for a closing session, and leave the door open for your future healing.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Jul 242 min read


You’re Not Behind. You’re Tired. | The Sunday Reset, Vol. 2
If Sundays feel heavy and you’re already overwhelmed before the week begins—this is for you. A gentle, therapist-created ritual to help you begin again with breath, not burnout.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Jul 202 min read


Why Representation Matters: Being Seen in the Therapy Room
For BIPOC clients, therapy can often feel like a space not built with them in mind. This post explores how representation impacts safety, healing, and trust — with guidance for both clients and clinicians using a decolonizing therapy lens.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Jul 144 min read


The Sunday Scaries Are Real—But You’re Not Alone
If Sundays fill you with dread, you’re not alone. This gentle guide offers 7 ways to begin your week with energy and ease—no hustle, no shame. Just presence, rituals, and reminders that you’re allowed to start again, soft and slow.
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Jul 133 min read
Welcome Back — Or Maybe, Welcome for the First Time
It feels like the right time to start something fresh. After years of supporting others through seasons of transformation, I’m finally...
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Jul 91 min read


BLACK LIVES – AND MINDS – MATTER | Charlotte Pride Magazine
Chapman’s impact on marginalized communities in Charlotte has always been significant. Her work during the past few months of heightened unr
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Jan 5, 20212 min read


OUTspoken Presents: Reia Chapman
Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone's week is off to an amazing start. Things have been incredibly busy for me but I wanted to take the time...
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Nov 10, 20201 min read


How to boost your immune system as cold, flu season nears in Charlotte amid COVID-19
Reia Chapman, founder of the Center for Family and Maternal Wellness, agrees that mental health should be a priority for boosting our immune
Reia Chapman, LCSW, LISW-CP
Sep 21, 20201 min read
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